"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Got her number :-) what nxt

Minty25

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Hey everyone i met this girl i havent seen around for quite some time today, she was working in a department store & we really hit it off talking about old times & catching up with wots been going on in eachothers lives.

The problem is i have a girlfriend & made it clear to her but she still persisted on giving me her mobile number & going out for a drink some time.

It would be good to catch up i never give her my number how wiil i reply & do i?

Many thanks
New inexperienced don juan member.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Paintballguy

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Just because you have a drink with a girl doesnt mean you have to go out with her. And in my book, that is not cheating.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Here's the definitive rule of thumb on determining if you should do a particular thing when you are involved with someone; ask yourself if you are willing to tell your partner. If not, don't do it.
 

Minty25

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Thankyou Francisco d'Anconia

Yes u have made me think i really apreciate the advice.

I see where you are coming from i cannot possibly expect to maintain a good relationship with the girl i am serious with if i am not putting 100 percent effort into our relationship.

commitment is my main objective & after that who knows....
 
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