"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Got her number :-) what nxt

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Hey everyone i met this girl i havent seen around for quite some time today, she was working in a department store & we really hit it off talking about old times & catching up with wots been going on in eachothers lives.

The problem is i have a girlfriend & made it clear to her but she still persisted on giving me her mobile number & going out for a drink some time.

It would be good to catch up i never give her my number how wiil i reply & do i?

Many thanks
New inexperienced don juan member.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just because you have a drink with a girl doesnt mean you have to go out with her. And in my book, that is not cheating.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Here's the definitive rule of thumb on determining if you should do a particular thing when you are involved with someone; ask yourself if you are willing to tell your partner. If not, don't do it.
 
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Thankyou Francisco d'Anconia

Yes u have made me think i really apreciate the advice.

I see where you are coming from i cannot possibly expect to maintain a good relationship with the girl i am serious with if i am not putting 100 percent effort into our relationship.

commitment is my main objective & after that who knows....
 
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