"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Got her number, how to proceed?

doctor1996

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I would like to give a little context. Starting talking to this girl. Found out she's an exchange student from France. Someone else was talking with us. After 10 minutes, I said I got a lot of work to do, I'll shoot you a text. What's your number? She said she didn't have a us phone number, and have me her whatsapp. She said next time she's gonna bring her friend who is a dude. She didn't say boyfriend. Regardless, I think i was doing well. I was making her ask me questions subconsciously and talking to the person next to us. But, I don't know if this is a good sign or bad sign. So what do you guys think I should do? I know I'm gonna message her 3 days later.. But is this a done deal?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why three days later ?. Dont overthink, go with a purpose and get her out on her own for a drink.
 
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