"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Got her number, how to proceed?

doctor1996

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I would like to give a little context. Starting talking to this girl. Found out she's an exchange student from France. Someone else was talking with us. After 10 minutes, I said I got a lot of work to do, I'll shoot you a text. What's your number? She said she didn't have a us phone number, and have me her whatsapp. She said next time she's gonna bring her friend who is a dude. She didn't say boyfriend. Regardless, I think i was doing well. I was making her ask me questions subconsciously and talking to the person next to us. But, I don't know if this is a good sign or bad sign. So what do you guys think I should do? I know I'm gonna message her 3 days later.. But is this a done deal?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Roni_88

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Why three days later ?. Dont overthink, go with a purpose and get her out on her own for a drink.
 
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