"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Got her number, how to proceed?

doctor1996

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I would like to give a little context. Starting talking to this girl. Found out she's an exchange student from France. Someone else was talking with us. After 10 minutes, I said I got a lot of work to do, I'll shoot you a text. What's your number? She said she didn't have a us phone number, and have me her whatsapp. She said next time she's gonna bring her friend who is a dude. She didn't say boyfriend. Regardless, I think i was doing well. I was making her ask me questions subconsciously and talking to the person next to us. But, I don't know if this is a good sign or bad sign. So what do you guys think I should do? I know I'm gonna message her 3 days later.. But is this a done deal?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why three days later ?. Dont overthink, go with a purpose and get her out on her own for a drink.
 
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