“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Got her number...flakey??

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Okay here's my situation.

My buddy and I went out to a resteraunt tonight. We had a few beers and I noticed our waitress was pretty hot. So I got to talking to her quite a bit.

She was fairly talkative so I got to wondering if maybe she was wanting a good tip. I've been in situations where my waitress was very socialable and come to find out she was doing it to get a good tip so I was kinda skeptical at first. Then she gave me a good conversation and i applied a little casual kino.

At the end of the night I asked her if she had some free time and if she wanted to hang out some. Her response was:

"Well its getting close to finals so I'll be spending a lot of time studying."

So I told her that she has to have some free time every once in a while and she should give me her number.

So she gave me he number.

I'm thinking she was sincere I mean since she gave it to me.

But was her response flakey? I mean do girls give out their number out of pity or fear that she might hurt my feelings?

She seems very laid back so I'm gonna wait a while and call her. She's 21 and still lives with her parents. She goes to my college which is like 20 minutes away from her house.

I just thought I would see what you guys opinion was on the situation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yea i think what she said was pretty flakey, she seemed like she wasn't VERY into you, and her response seemed like she was trying to avoid what u asked. it sounds like she might of done it over pity but it might not. i had something similiar like this happen to me, i ended up asking her at the end of a pretty long conversation because she's more comfortable in telling u things and trusts u a little bit, her answer was "at first i felt sorry for u but now that i got to know u im really glad i did."
 
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Well I guess if my situation is the same as yours then things should go pretty good. See, one thing I forgot to mention was that I asked her something about her boyfriend or what would her boyfriend think or whatever the statement was.

She said that she wouldn't consider him her "boyfriend" that they aren't together anymore.

So I figure if she totally didn't have any interest in me at all that she would have said that yea she has boyfriend you know.
 
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