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Got her number...flakey??

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Okay here's my situation.

My buddy and I went out to a resteraunt tonight. We had a few beers and I noticed our waitress was pretty hot. So I got to talking to her quite a bit.

She was fairly talkative so I got to wondering if maybe she was wanting a good tip. I've been in situations where my waitress was very socialable and come to find out she was doing it to get a good tip so I was kinda skeptical at first. Then she gave me a good conversation and i applied a little casual kino.

At the end of the night I asked her if she had some free time and if she wanted to hang out some. Her response was:

"Well its getting close to finals so I'll be spending a lot of time studying."

So I told her that she has to have some free time every once in a while and she should give me her number.

So she gave me he number.

I'm thinking she was sincere I mean since she gave it to me.

But was her response flakey? I mean do girls give out their number out of pity or fear that she might hurt my feelings?

She seems very laid back so I'm gonna wait a while and call her. She's 21 and still lives with her parents. She goes to my college which is like 20 minutes away from her house.

I just thought I would see what you guys opinion was on the situation.
 

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yea i think what she said was pretty flakey, she seemed like she wasn't VERY into you, and her response seemed like she was trying to avoid what u asked. it sounds like she might of done it over pity but it might not. i had something similiar like this happen to me, i ended up asking her at the end of a pretty long conversation because she's more comfortable in telling u things and trusts u a little bit, her answer was "at first i felt sorry for u but now that i got to know u im really glad i did."
 
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Well I guess if my situation is the same as yours then things should go pretty good. See, one thing I forgot to mention was that I asked her something about her boyfriend or what would her boyfriend think or whatever the statement was.

She said that she wouldn't consider him her "boyfriend" that they aren't together anymore.

So I figure if she totally didn't have any interest in me at all that she would have said that yea she has boyfriend you know.
 
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