"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Got flaked on the last minute - How did I do?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Poonani Maker
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Yeah, but with each passing text she opens the door a crick. You should say, "Call Me if you just wanna hook up. Cause right now, that's all I'd ever see you as. I'd wanted more, but now I don't." Cold man, cold, and Who Give a Fvck what she thinks? Who gives a fvck what you and your friends think if she shows your text to them. Fvck em.Konada said:
EvilAgenda
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THUMBS UP.
Simple, and just as good.
TempestNight
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He met this girl once, He isn't Brad Pitt. This girl is only mildly interested at him at best, she isn't going to crawl all over him to sleep with him. Completely ignoring her isn't going to get him anywhere.Zodiac said:
AFC? I have been in this site for more than 7 years.
If you think your method works? Go ahead, like I said you are just c0ck blocking yourself without knowing it. Sometimes try give things a second chance with a balanced approach and you will score a lot more, give it a try. You will be amazed.
DonGorgon
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next time ignore her BS flake and wait a week then try an get her to you house.. dont try to date her dating hos is lame and is 10X harder to F when you ..
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.