"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Got flaked on the last minute - How did I do?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Poonani Maker
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Yeah, but with each passing text she opens the door a crick. You should say, "Call Me if you just wanna hook up. Cause right now, that's all I'd ever see you as. I'd wanted more, but now I don't." Cold man, cold, and Who Give a Fvck what she thinks? Who gives a fvck what you and your friends think if she shows your text to them. Fvck em.Konada said:
EvilAgenda
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THUMBS UP.
Simple, and just as good.
TempestNight
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He met this girl once, He isn't Brad Pitt. This girl is only mildly interested at him at best, she isn't going to crawl all over him to sleep with him. Completely ignoring her isn't going to get him anywhere.Zodiac said:
AFC? I have been in this site for more than 7 years.
If you think your method works? Go ahead, like I said you are just c0ck blocking yourself without knowing it. Sometimes try give things a second chance with a balanced approach and you will score a lot more, give it a try. You will be amazed.
DonGorgon
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next time ignore her BS flake and wait a week then try an get her to you house.. dont try to date her dating hos is lame and is 10X harder to F when you ..
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.