"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Got flaked on the last minute - How did I do?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Poonani Maker
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Yeah, but with each passing text she opens the door a crick. You should say, "Call Me if you just wanna hook up. Cause right now, that's all I'd ever see you as. I'd wanted more, but now I don't." Cold man, cold, and Who Give a Fvck what she thinks? Who gives a fvck what you and your friends think if she shows your text to them. Fvck em.Konada said:
EvilAgenda
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THUMBS UP.
Simple, and just as good.
TempestNight
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He met this girl once, He isn't Brad Pitt. This girl is only mildly interested at him at best, she isn't going to crawl all over him to sleep with him. Completely ignoring her isn't going to get him anywhere.Zodiac said:
AFC? I have been in this site for more than 7 years.
If you think your method works? Go ahead, like I said you are just c0ck blocking yourself without knowing it. Sometimes try give things a second chance with a balanced approach and you will score a lot more, give it a try. You will be amazed.
DonGorgon
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next time ignore her BS flake and wait a week then try an get her to you house.. dont try to date her dating hos is lame and is 10X harder to F when you ..
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.