I got dumped today. I o.k. with it. My plan is to love my life for the adventure it is. I am going to talk to new girls and keep it light. I will focus more on just myself day in and day out. I am sharing with everyone because I really want to over-react right now but I know a Don Juan wouldn't react like a child right now. I am going to focus on taking it easy on myself and just think about the way a Don Juan would. A Don Juan would enjoy a beautiful night with a cigar and be thankful for the time on this earth knowing that there are tons of people getting run over by tanks or starving. Being a Don Juan means enjoying your life with or without girls. So tonight I am going easy on myself. Tomorrow I am going to work on my career and keep going to the gym. My clothes game needs work as well. Thanks to lots of people on this site I don't have to be crushed from this situation and I will get better.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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El Payaso
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That sucks, bro. Just focus your anger on more productive things like you said. Instead of thinking of the good times in the relationship. Think of all the negative sources of the person. For example, she always talked loudly on the phone or had dirty hygiene. It will help you get over get even faster. Good luck.
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As others have said, great mentality. I'm actually in a similar boat right now and it sucks, but that's life man. Just gotta stay positive and move on.Demonpenz said:
Best of luck!
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