I got dumped today. I o.k. with it. My plan is to love my life for the adventure it is. I am going to talk to new girls and keep it light. I will focus more on just myself day in and day out. I am sharing with everyone because I really want to over-react right now but I know a Don Juan wouldn't react like a child right now. I am going to focus on taking it easy on myself and just think about the way a Don Juan would. A Don Juan would enjoy a beautiful night with a cigar and be thankful for the time on this earth knowing that there are tons of people getting run over by tanks or starving. Being a Don Juan means enjoying your life with or without girls. So tonight I am going easy on myself. Tomorrow I am going to work on my career and keep going to the gym. My clothes game needs work as well. Thanks to lots of people on this site I don't have to be crushed from this situation and I will get better.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Got Dumped.
- Thread starter Demonpenz
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
El Payaso
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That sucks, bro. Just focus your anger on more productive things like you said. Instead of thinking of the good times in the relationship. Think of all the negative sources of the person. For example, she always talked loudly on the phone or had dirty hygiene. It will help you get over get even faster. Good luck.
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As others have said, great mentality. I'm actually in a similar boat right now and it sucks, but that's life man. Just gotta stay positive and move on.Demonpenz said:
Best of luck!
narcissist
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Repped for having a secure head on your shoulders.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.