So ive hung out with this chick that I like a few times. She is great, like perfect girlfriend material which is what im looking for this winter. The other night I hooked up with her for the first time, made out, ran the passes, she gave me head, it was all good. She was kinda drunk the night it happened b ut she deffinately knew what she was doing. We kissed when i took her home the next day. Also this chick is not one to go hooking up with alot of guys she is a really good girl (shes not a slut), I was surprised that she went so far with me. Anyway shes smoking hot and I want to ask her out but I havent even talk, seen, or heard from her since sunday - the day I dropped her off. I know its only been a couple of days but I thought she would call me or something? Do u guys think I should call her? Im thinking she must like me because she gave me head haha. do u think it would be safe if I took her out this weekend and asked her out? or maybe it was just a one night thing and she regrets it... hopefully not, but damn i want her to call me... also I dont have oneitis i got plenty of chicks to hop to if this one doesnt work out... so what do u guys think... thanks for any help with my situation
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got dates, got dome, dont got the girl... yet?
- Thread starter theNEWDJ
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
Sunday, as in, yesterday? If so...Chill the hell out, you are sounding like a girl.
"Like, omg, she hasn't called!"
She'll come around sometime, just freaking relax man.
"Like, omg, she hasn't called!"
She'll come around sometime, just freaking relax man.
PumpingIron13
Don Juan
i would give her a call tomorrow and just try to be cool whatever uve been doing is working out fine for u
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.