So ive hung out with this chick that I like a few times. She is great, like perfect girlfriend material which is what im looking for this winter. The other night I hooked up with her for the first time, made out, ran the passes, she gave me head, it was all good. She was kinda drunk the night it happened b ut she deffinately knew what she was doing. We kissed when i took her home the next day. Also this chick is not one to go hooking up with alot of guys she is a really good girl (shes not a slut), I was surprised that she went so far with me. Anyway shes smoking hot and I want to ask her out but I havent even talk, seen, or heard from her since sunday - the day I dropped her off. I know its only been a couple of days but I thought she would call me or something? Do u guys think I should call her? Im thinking she must like me because she gave me head haha. do u think it would be safe if I took her out this weekend and asked her out? or maybe it was just a one night thing and she regrets it... hopefully not, but damn i want her to call me... also I dont have oneitis i got plenty of chicks to hop to if this one doesnt work out... so what do u guys think... thanks for any help with my situation
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
got dates, got dome, dont got the girl... yet?
- Thread starter theNEWDJ
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
Sunday, as in, yesterday? If so...Chill the hell out, you are sounding like a girl.
"Like, omg, she hasn't called!"
She'll come around sometime, just freaking relax man.
"Like, omg, she hasn't called!"
She'll come around sometime, just freaking relax man.
PumpingIron13
Don Juan
i would give her a call tomorrow and just try to be cool whatever uve been doing is working out fine for u
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.