So ive hung out with this chick that I like a few times. She is great, like perfect girlfriend material which is what im looking for this winter. The other night I hooked up with her for the first time, made out, ran the passes, she gave me head, it was all good. She was kinda drunk the night it happened b ut she deffinately knew what she was doing. We kissed when i took her home the next day. Also this chick is not one to go hooking up with alot of guys she is a really good girl (shes not a slut), I was surprised that she went so far with me. Anyway shes smoking hot and I want to ask her out but I havent even talk, seen, or heard from her since sunday - the day I dropped her off. I know its only been a couple of days but I thought she would call me or something? Do u guys think I should call her? Im thinking she must like me because she gave me head haha. do u think it would be safe if I took her out this weekend and asked her out? or maybe it was just a one night thing and she regrets it... hopefully not, but damn i want her to call me... also I dont have oneitis i got plenty of chicks to hop to if this one doesnt work out... so what do u guys think... thanks for any help with my situation
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
got dates, got dome, dont got the girl... yet?
- Thread starter theNEWDJ
- Start date
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
Sunday, as in, yesterday? If so...Chill the hell out, you are sounding like a girl.
"Like, omg, she hasn't called!"
She'll come around sometime, just freaking relax man.
"Like, omg, she hasn't called!"
She'll come around sometime, just freaking relax man.
PumpingIron13
Don Juan
i would give her a call tomorrow and just try to be cool whatever uve been doing is working out fine for u
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