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Female interaction is not part of masculinity.

Masculinity naturally attracts females to interact with it.
Exactly. If a woman your interested in rejects you its not personal nor should it affect how you see your world. It really is that simple. You WILL learn to feel out the right type ov
woman for you.
 

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Female interaction is not part of masculinity.

Masculinity naturally attracts females to interact with it.
So the equal level masculine dude that doesnt get ***** cause his game sucks. Vs the other equal guy who gets ***** is the same?
 
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So the equal level masculine dude that doesnt get ***** cause his game sucks. Vs the other equal guy who gets ***** is the same?
A masculine energy guy with ****ty game will attract more females then a feminine male who is appeasing and trust worthy all the time. Yes that's the real world today.
 

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I already tried to take her on a date and cannot get her to go. All she does is keep asking me to talk about the past(in person) and cannot get past it
So then why don't you just talk to her about it then in person? That seems like a simple request
 

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So the equal level masculine dude that doesnt get ***** cause his game sucks. Vs the other equal guy who gets ***** is the same?
A muscular man doesn't equal masculinity.

Masculinity is a state of mind.

A mascular man who has little to no manly traits will need lots of game - tricks to even have a chance at a girl.
 

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Sure you did
It’d be way cooler if I didn’t!

Yeah no doubt. She texted me last night. Didn’t respond. Saw me walking down the street today, and crossed the street to talk to me. But no olive branches were extended from either of us. I definitely won’t give her the satisfaction. She just said hi. I said hi. That was about it. She said she doesn’t know what else to do other than rehash the past at this point. At which point I told her I wasn’t interested in that and kept walking. We live and work LESS THAN 1 block within each other which is less than ideal. Run into her all the damn time.
So then why don't you just talk to her about it then in person? That seems like a simple request
I would agree, but everytime I meet up with her, it’s her crying and saying she can’t get over the broken trust, which is fvcking ridiculous. Cannot and will not move on which = nobody gets laid and a bad time.

Not saying that finding another 9.5 is easy, because imo a 9.5 is the 1% of the 1%. But I can do it again. I just don’t really want to smash lesser girls in the meantime but also I really like having sex every day. Anything that was an 8 or better was fine for a plate before but I don’t even really want to put the effort in for anyone I see as less attractive. It’s been about a solid 5yrs since I’ve had a 9.5. I had a guy come up to me the other day and really laid it on how she was one of the hottest girls he had seen in the major city I live in. That fvcking killed me, tbh bc it’s true. I really wish I was embellishing her hotness, but when I got her every guy I know was trying to bang her. So I really keep getting stuck in the same spot if how can I do better? I developed a strong rep of banging a different girl every night when we met. And I acted as if I didn’t give sh!t, even though she was the hottest. She begged me to date just her. I have no doubt this attracted her to me—even though the transition from spinning plates to dating her wasn’t easy. She really doubted my ability to be monogamous, even though, once I found a worthy partner and make that commitment it was very easy. I just kinda am opposed to the idea of fvxking girls that are less hot. It’s a bummer.
 
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Female interaction is not part of masculinity.

Masculinity naturally attracts females to interact with it.
I don’t disagree with you, but I have everything else. I can’t do better at my job. I can’t be more in-shape. I can’t have a better crew, so there’s really no other part of my life that I’d like to change. That being said, when I bang a girl that’s less hot than my ex, I don’t derive much from it after I nut.

That being said, fvcking the hottest girls doesn’t make you feel less masculine; I am sure of it. Having the hottest girl in the room and having her tell guys to fvck off, left and right, certainly doesn’t hurt your masculine ego.

Her biggest issue with seeing me with another girl was ‘how could you possibly move-on so quickly?!? I’m crying myself to sleep every night and you’re out there picking up new girls?!? I’ll never get over you even if we never get back together!!’ Which honestly, we prob won’t, but, that’s a moot point. 10/10 bet that if she monkey branches, it’s gonna be a significant downgrade. Which I’m in the same boat and that sucks.
 
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Exactly. If a woman your interested in rejects you its not personal nor should it affect how you see your world. It really is that simple. You WILL learn to feel out the right type ov
woman for you.
Lots of girls want me, but I’m real real picky and that’s not going to change. I’d say I think 1/1000 women is a 9 or better—and I’m not going to actually date worse than that. Many of the 1/1000 are taken, or have some non-physical quality I dislike. I’ll bang 7s and 8s, but it’s pretty unsatisfying for me afterwards.
 

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So why are you here if you're pulling 9.5's and IG models?

You got over that one international model with 10 million followers so how is this girl any different?

Come off it, mate.
 

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So why are you here if you're pulling 9.5's and IG models?

You got over that one international model with 10 million followers so how is this girl any different?

Come off it, mate.
Because it’s 2/100 girls I’ve banged/dated. I would say there’s 3 total that I’d give the 9-10 status to. I wish I could say I was pulling that kind of girls left and right. It’s not that I don’t have the SMV or the game or confidence, but ya gotta find em first. Most girls don’t break and 8. And even an 8, in my opinion is top 5%.

And to be honest the intl model had a really sh!t personality. This one had a great personality...until she didn’t. At least she fooled me for awhile. The model was just hot. Totally undatable otherwise.

It’s still a big kick in the balls especially since I thought she was marriage material. Maybe she turned out not to be, but still doesn’t discount the fact that I thought she was.

If you think it’s real, it’s real enough.

I realize I gotta get off it and over it. That’s why I’m here. I can get lots of 8s. I don’t want them though except for an NSA fvck.
 

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All this trouble just to bang a “9.5” lol c’mon son. That’s why these girls run around with these egos. You ****in up the game. If guys simple stopped jumping through hopes for these women they find out there not that special. And probably be more inclined to stay.
They arent. Its someone's bratty sister or entitled daughter.
 

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Have a picture of this 9.5 you are talking about? If you feel uncomfortable public posting, you can PM me.
 
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Have a picture of this 9.5 you are talking about? If you feel uncomfortable public posting, you can PM me.
Hindereds from nudes to gym pics to going out pics, but there’s way more downside then upside posting a pic of DMing it. It’s the only leverage I have against her going full psycho if she were to find and I can’t trust that you won’t post publicly. I’ll thing about it tihoigh. She specifically asked me not to so inclined to keel Thant promise.
 

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I am not in position to evaluate game of any guy that has dated HB +8/10 and higher as SMV disparity in terms of looks or money would be too obvious - if you were able to pick up HB 9.5/10 you are far from deep sh.itholes most of us went through after break up - my top game can bring me 8/10 but nothing more. After break up I wasn't in position to pick up 6/10s.

Even if your frame cracked, you should still be able to pick up 8/10s to soothe your heart - and it's great, I'd do that, repair myself and go back to hunt angels.

GL mate. You will be fine.
 

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Okay let's take this in stages she broke up with you because something in your past and around the same time a family member passed away? For that alone, I would cut all ties and never speak to her again. Now you lost frame but the only thing you can do is use this as a lesson and move forward. You have oneitis but one thing you have to remember about women this might have been an excuse for her to break up with you and then maybe start dating other guys. I know you are down and I don't want to make it worse but something an old saying which one of my favourite hockey players said. It was last year after the Toronto Maple Leafs lost game two to the Boston Bruins. Auston Matthews said this on TV answering the reporter's question. **** happens. I know you may not understand but Auston who is a young guy said this on TV without any care what so ever. It made me laugh but he was right. **** happens in life but we have a choice to rise above it or stay in the ****. Rise above the **** you are in. It may be hard but you have to remember whatever she told you wasn't the entire truth about her feelings towards you. She might have said she loved you but remember women love on an opportunistic level, not on an idealistic level like men. So, in other words, women are like cats. Have you ever encountered a stray cat who might have hissed at you and then you might have had food on you and fed it and it started purring and lying on it's back exposing its belly which is the cat hug? This is what women do once we fulfil their needs and then they love us. I know for guys in the Manosphere like Rollo who I respect a whole lot who has been married for 20 plus years but for me an opportunistic love isn't good enough for me and now female nature has been exposed it's not good enough for a lot of men. Women will deny this to their deaths but how come they monkey branch/ride the **** carousel. That's what you have to get in your mind she will never love you the way you love her.
 

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So why are you here if you're pulling 9.5's and IG models?

You got over that one international model with 10 million followers so how is this girl any different?

Come off it, mate.
Because my frame isn’t ideal right now. I’m here to get some support and remember the things I forgot. To get back to abundance mindset. To cure my oneitis.

I have never been broken up with before. I have always been the one initiating the breakup. Getting dumped sucks—especially when you think it’s going the distance. We’re all still learning bro, no one knows everything. I act like I do sometimes, but there’s always going to be times in your life that are humbling. The difference between me and guys that don’t get 9s and 10s are two things.

1. I always shoot my shot with the hottest girls. There is zero downside.

2. I understand that you can’t please all the people all the time, and that some girls have boyfriends. So I get shot down sometimes, but that’s life. I’d rather miss sometimes than not take a shot. I’d rather hit the half court shot, than go for a layup.

I’m not here asking for advice on opening or closing or anything in between. I’m here because my frame is shook. Which happens to everyone—be it from a girl, a death, loss of a job, and injury and the list goes in. Unless you’re a complete sociopath, any loss is going to throw a guy off regardless of their SMV.

I’m already feeling about 50% better and this thread thanks for the SS community for the constructive posts. For those thinking that there’s no way a high SMV guy can fall off from losing a smokeshow girlfriend—a loss is a loss. The higher up you are the further you can fall—but also the higher you bounce off the ground haha. Ok, done with the metaphors and addressing that can’t wrap their mind around that someone is out there fvcking the top 1%—they’re not virgins. Also, think about all times you see a smokin hot girl with a busted dude. Use what you got and if ya don’t got it, go get it.
 
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How do you get over this? Long story short, I lost my frame for about a month going through some personal problems and she left me.

Never had a problem picking up girls. Already have a few hb7-8 in my orbit that want to sleep with me, but I’m not ready and I feel like they’re not good enough. I want someone hotter than my ex, which given my level of attraction to her, may not be possible—at least right now. Super depressed. I have terrible one-itis and just can’t get her off my mind. Was going to hang up the cleats and marry her, now I’m back to potentially banging girls that are objectively and subjectively less attractive to me. She was definitely the hottest girl I’ve banged or at least very close to it. Showstopper. Good girl, good in bed, good family, wanted to marry me. I’d be lying to myself if I said she wasn’t all those things. But I screwed it up. Had a really dark time in my past that I never told Her about. Nothing crazy but got real depressed and off my game after a family member passed away. She found out, and feels like I lied to her because I basically did. Thought it was in the rearview. I reacted poorly with an attrocious barrage of beta, unattractive apologizing, begging. I am literally disgusted just thinking about it. Totally lost my frame over it. Never misstepped in our year-long relationship otherwise. She is probably horrified. In all honesty—I’m horrified. I don’t know how I behaved like that. Ugh.

Maybe this isn’t the right place to post this. I don’t need help picking up girls. But I’m very down and out. Having a hard time reconciling what I lost, and an even harder time believing I can do better. I’m in my 30s and have had my fun. Didn’t want to go back to the single DJ lifestyle. But here I am.

TLDR; broken heart from smokeshow. Need help picking up the pieces. FML.
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