Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'm going to guess you suggested meeting up on Saturday? She didn't pull the date out of the air.HappyHarryHardon said:
" what time is good for you?" - i like that, she's giving me all the control."lol..UR JUST THE WORST KIND OF WUSS I KNOW. now jerks like me, we get netted everytime.HappyHarryHardon said:actually she suggested saturday. this will be our second date... anyway, i replied back saying "for sure, lets go to an arcade and shoot some hoops, then see a movie
she replied "sounds good
now i was busy with another girl at my place and i replied like 3 hours later "just come by my place at 7pm and we'll take it from there."
and she replied: "ok then i'll see you on saturday
my plan is to get her to chill out in my room with some nice music pumped up, give her a lil massage (i use to do massage therapy) and put in some kisses and fool around for 30 mins then head out. just to loosen her up.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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