"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheNonPedant

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Hi, I'm in a tight situation here. There is a girl I'm unsure if I should pursue or not...I have no problem about getting her number....however there is only one thing holding me back...

I will be leaving for school in about 5 months...where there are many other girls.

Question is....should I get her number anyways?...I didn't want to start something with her and then have it hold me back at school with the other ladies....I also didn't want to start something and then ditch her shortly after...

or then again...am I thinking too far ahead?

I'm 80% leaning toward pursue...but what are your opinions

appreciate it
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PuertoRican_Lover

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Pursue!
 
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princelydeeds

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You are putting the cart before the horse. You don't know the chick but you are already thinking about a relationship. Read the DJ bible. Eliminate desire, don't put her up on a pedestal. Get teh number, get to know her, judge her by the way she treats you then make a decision about what you want from her. 99% of the time we find out the woman is not who we wanted her to be or worth the pedestal we created for her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don of Truth

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Agree with princely

The situation is with YOUR perceived attachment to what COULD be.
Here is a different perspective:

You do form a relationship with her and it is great and wonderful.
The 5 months come and as an alpha male you end it.
If you did your job she may cry and beg you to stay.
If she is a healthy girl she will feel sorrow and saddness but will untimately see you off with nothing but the best for you in her heart.
And you too, will wish her the best.
So, if you choose to pursue (as you should), do not lead her on to believe this is LTR, but don't tell her she is just a fling either.

You will become a lesson in her life. A lesson on happiness and learning to live in the moment. She will be "that awesome short term relationship you had right before college".

It's all about not fearing your own experience of the world.
 
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Dont have one-itis for this chicka. Have fun and take it as far as it goes, but dont cling to her. Meet other women as well. Dont look to far ahead assuming that everything will work out. **** happens.
 
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pursue, it'll teach you to strike up conversations and relationzships where you aren't looking for anything serious, jsut to have fun...Being able to do this seperates the guys who are chicken**** of approaching and asking girls out, from guys who have a different girl to hang out with each day of the week...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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F U K I N' H I T T H A T !!!

She might be a cool **** buddy to have for 5 months.
 
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Go for it, not everything has to last forever. Life is about change.
 
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