"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheNonPedant

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Hi, I'm in a tight situation here. There is a girl I'm unsure if I should pursue or not...I have no problem about getting her number....however there is only one thing holding me back...

I will be leaving for school in about 5 months...where there are many other girls.

Question is....should I get her number anyways?...I didn't want to start something with her and then have it hold me back at school with the other ladies....I also didn't want to start something and then ditch her shortly after...

or then again...am I thinking too far ahead?

I'm 80% leaning toward pursue...but what are your opinions

appreciate it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PuertoRican_Lover

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Pursue!
 
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princelydeeds

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You are putting the cart before the horse. You don't know the chick but you are already thinking about a relationship. Read the DJ bible. Eliminate desire, don't put her up on a pedestal. Get teh number, get to know her, judge her by the way she treats you then make a decision about what you want from her. 99% of the time we find out the woman is not who we wanted her to be or worth the pedestal we created for her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don of Truth

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Agree with princely

The situation is with YOUR perceived attachment to what COULD be.
Here is a different perspective:

You do form a relationship with her and it is great and wonderful.
The 5 months come and as an alpha male you end it.
If you did your job she may cry and beg you to stay.
If she is a healthy girl she will feel sorrow and saddness but will untimately see you off with nothing but the best for you in her heart.
And you too, will wish her the best.
So, if you choose to pursue (as you should), do not lead her on to believe this is LTR, but don't tell her she is just a fling either.

You will become a lesson in her life. A lesson on happiness and learning to live in the moment. She will be "that awesome short term relationship you had right before college".

It's all about not fearing your own experience of the world.
 
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Dont have one-itis for this chicka. Have fun and take it as far as it goes, but dont cling to her. Meet other women as well. Dont look to far ahead assuming that everything will work out. **** happens.
 
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pursue, it'll teach you to strike up conversations and relationzships where you aren't looking for anything serious, jsut to have fun...Being able to do this seperates the guys who are chicken**** of approaching and asking girls out, from guys who have a different girl to hang out with each day of the week...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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F U K I N' H I T T H A T !!!

She might be a cool **** buddy to have for 5 months.
 
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Go for it, not everything has to last forever. Life is about change.
 
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