"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Got a phone number, Whats next?

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Maximummax

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I got a phone number from this chick yesterday at a grocery store while she was standing in the line
when in line i opened her and we chatted a little bit, came to know she is new to city just like me. when she was leaving she walks up to me( i was next in line and was using self chekout) and says nice meeting up and gives a shake hand, i immediately asked her, would you like to grab a drink this thursday and she says my parents are visiting me on thursday but i can do on wednesday and i said ok and took her number, she asks me to dial and did. When i went home i see a text message from her saying the same thing that she won'r be able to make it on thursday but she is avail on wednesday and she asked me to let me know where, which i did.

Now here is my question, should i text her to build some rapport and make a call before wednesday or straight ahead meet her on wed?
What you guys think
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No need to text her, plan something out and give her a call tomorrow to set it up. She seems keen to see you.
 
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when i texted her i told her we will be meeting at local starbucks and go from there. this happened while we were texting yesterday.
so now my question is should i text her today and tommorow or give a call to build some rapport? what you guys think?
 
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Maximummax said:
when i texted her i told her we will be meeting at local starbucks and go from there. this happened while we were texting yesterday.
so now my question is should i text her today and tommorow or give a call to build some rapport? what you guys think?
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You've already built rapport with her when you met her, save it until the date. Give her a quick call, general chat for 10minutes and set up the date. You have plenty of chance to build rapport/whatever when you're together.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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