"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Got a phone number, Whats next?

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I got a phone number from this chick yesterday at a grocery store while she was standing in the line
when in line i opened her and we chatted a little bit, came to know she is new to city just like me. when she was leaving she walks up to me( i was next in line and was using self chekout) and says nice meeting up and gives a shake hand, i immediately asked her, would you like to grab a drink this thursday and she says my parents are visiting me on thursday but i can do on wednesday and i said ok and took her number, she asks me to dial and did. When i went home i see a text message from her saying the same thing that she won'r be able to make it on thursday but she is avail on wednesday and she asked me to let me know where, which i did.

Now here is my question, should i text her to build some rapport and make a call before wednesday or straight ahead meet her on wed?
What you guys think
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No need to text her, plan something out and give her a call tomorrow to set it up. She seems keen to see you.
 
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when i texted her i told her we will be meeting at local starbucks and go from there. this happened while we were texting yesterday.
so now my question is should i text her today and tommorow or give a call to build some rapport? what you guys think?
 
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Maximummax said:
when i texted her i told her we will be meeting at local starbucks and go from there. this happened while we were texting yesterday.
so now my question is should i text her today and tommorow or give a call to build some rapport? what you guys think?
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You've already built rapport with her when you met her, save it until the date. Give her a quick call, general chat for 10minutes and set up the date. You have plenty of chance to build rapport/whatever when you're together.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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