Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Got a phone number, Whats next?

Maximummax

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I got a phone number from this chick yesterday at a grocery store while she was standing in the line
when in line i opened her and we chatted a little bit, came to know she is new to city just like me. when she was leaving she walks up to me( i was next in line and was using self chekout) and says nice meeting up and gives a shake hand, i immediately asked her, would you like to grab a drink this thursday and she says my parents are visiting me on thursday but i can do on wednesday and i said ok and took her number, she asks me to dial and did. When i went home i see a text message from her saying the same thing that she won'r be able to make it on thursday but she is avail on wednesday and she asked me to let me know where, which i did.

Now here is my question, should i text her to build some rapport and make a call before wednesday or straight ahead meet her on wed?
What you guys think
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Htienvu

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No need to text her, plan something out and give her a call tomorrow to set it up. She seems keen to see you.
 

Maximummax

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when i texted her i told her we will be meeting at local starbucks and go from there. this happened while we were texting yesterday.
so now my question is should i text her today and tommorow or give a call to build some rapport? what you guys think?
 

Htienvu

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Maximummax said:
when i texted her i told her we will be meeting at local starbucks and go from there. this happened while we were texting yesterday.
so now my question is should i text her today and tommorow or give a call to build some rapport? what you guys think?
You've already built rapport with her when you met her, save it until the date. Give her a quick call, general chat for 10minutes and set up the date. You have plenty of chance to build rapport/whatever when you're together.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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