"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Got a phone number, Whats next?

Maximummax

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2011
Messages
485
Reaction score
25
Location
Florida
I got a phone number from this chick yesterday at a grocery store while she was standing in the line
when in line i opened her and we chatted a little bit, came to know she is new to city just like me. when she was leaving she walks up to me( i was next in line and was using self chekout) and says nice meeting up and gives a shake hand, i immediately asked her, would you like to grab a drink this thursday and she says my parents are visiting me on thursday but i can do on wednesday and i said ok and took her number, she asks me to dial and did. When i went home i see a text message from her saying the same thing that she won'r be able to make it on thursday but she is avail on wednesday and she asked me to let me know where, which i did.

Now here is my question, should i text her to build some rapport and make a call before wednesday or straight ahead meet her on wed?
What you guys think
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Htienvu

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 2, 2011
Messages
319
Reaction score
6
No need to text her, plan something out and give her a call tomorrow to set it up. She seems keen to see you.
 

Maximummax

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2011
Messages
485
Reaction score
25
Location
Florida
when i texted her i told her we will be meeting at local starbucks and go from there. this happened while we were texting yesterday.
so now my question is should i text her today and tommorow or give a call to build some rapport? what you guys think?
 

Htienvu

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 2, 2011
Messages
319
Reaction score
6
Maximummax said:
when i texted her i told her we will be meeting at local starbucks and go from there. this happened while we were texting yesterday.
so now my question is should i text her today and tommorow or give a call to build some rapport? what you guys think?
You've already built rapport with her when you met her, save it until the date. Give her a quick call, general chat for 10minutes and set up the date. You have plenty of chance to build rapport/whatever when you're together.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top