"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

got a new job that work weekends, my girls pissed..

M

montybrown

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 15, 2005
Messages
124
Reaction score
0
so heres the thing, me and my girl work a lot, she basically works monday - saturday and off Sunday. I work mon-fri, I get off at 4pm, she gets off at like 9 pm. So I only see her at night. Now I'm starting this new job where I'm off on Tuesday and Thursdays but I work Saturday and Sundays and she's like "You're working on OUR day! That's the only day we really get to spend with each other" and she's getting pissed. What the hell? I mean I hate that I'll be working on the weekends too and that I won't spend enough time with her, but I'm pissed that she comes home so frickin late on the Weekdays when I finish at 4pm. So it should be a two-way street. Also. I told her I love you, and she doesn't even say it back she's like "Thanks" and just kisses me and says "I can't say it back" What should I say?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

T

theunflushables

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 28, 2007
Messages
1,104
Reaction score
20
Tell her you are doing the right thing financially and she's going to have to deal.
 
P

Prodigy746

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 18, 2007
Messages
696
Reaction score
14
First of all i would not say i love you to a girl unless i really really mean it....

Second if she told me she cant say it i would prolly dump her. From the looks of it shes pretty dumb complaining about it..
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top