"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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got a new job that work weekends, my girls pissed..

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montybrown

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so heres the thing, me and my girl work a lot, she basically works monday - saturday and off Sunday. I work mon-fri, I get off at 4pm, she gets off at like 9 pm. So I only see her at night. Now I'm starting this new job where I'm off on Tuesday and Thursdays but I work Saturday and Sundays and she's like "You're working on OUR day! That's the only day we really get to spend with each other" and she's getting pissed. What the hell? I mean I hate that I'll be working on the weekends too and that I won't spend enough time with her, but I'm pissed that she comes home so frickin late on the Weekdays when I finish at 4pm. So it should be a two-way street. Also. I told her I love you, and she doesn't even say it back she's like "Thanks" and just kisses me and says "I can't say it back" What should I say?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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theunflushables

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Tell her you are doing the right thing financially and she's going to have to deal.
 
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Prodigy746

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First of all i would not say i love you to a girl unless i really really mean it....

Second if she told me she cant say it i would prolly dump her. From the looks of it shes pretty dumb complaining about it..
 
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