oneboy21
Senior Don Juan
How to deal with it, Nay or yay
I know we shouldn't deal with chicks who are far.
I know we shouldn't deal with chicks who are far.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Got a message from a chick who lives 500 miles away?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Got a message? An SOS in a bottle? A text message that read LOL? A smoke signal? What kind of message?
And no you don't go 500 miles unless you already met her in person and at least kissed her and you are relocating in that direction and she said she'll get a hotel.
And no you don't go 500 miles unless you already met her in person and at least kissed her and you are relocating in that direction and she said she'll get a hotel.
Young Stallion
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LOL dont give this situation a second thought.
Just think about a girl recieving a message from a guy 500 miles away...they would delete it without a second thought.
Just think about a girl recieving a message from a guy 500 miles away...they would delete it without a second thought.
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
?? which site was this
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.