oneboy21
Senior Don Juan
How to deal with it, Nay or yay
I know we shouldn't deal with chicks who are far.
I know we shouldn't deal with chicks who are far.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Got a message from a chick who lives 500 miles away?
- Thread starter oneboy21
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Got a message? An SOS in a bottle? A text message that read LOL? A smoke signal? What kind of message?
And no you don't go 500 miles unless you already met her in person and at least kissed her and you are relocating in that direction and she said she'll get a hotel.
And no you don't go 500 miles unless you already met her in person and at least kissed her and you are relocating in that direction and she said she'll get a hotel.
Young Stallion
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LOL dont give this situation a second thought.
Just think about a girl recieving a message from a guy 500 miles away...they would delete it without a second thought.
Just think about a girl recieving a message from a guy 500 miles away...they would delete it without a second thought.
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
?? which site was this
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.