oneboy21
Senior Don Juan
How to deal with it, Nay or yay
I know we shouldn't deal with chicks who are far.
I know we shouldn't deal with chicks who are far.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Got a message from a chick who lives 500 miles away?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Got a message? An SOS in a bottle? A text message that read LOL? A smoke signal? What kind of message?
And no you don't go 500 miles unless you already met her in person and at least kissed her and you are relocating in that direction and she said she'll get a hotel.
And no you don't go 500 miles unless you already met her in person and at least kissed her and you are relocating in that direction and she said she'll get a hotel.
Young Stallion
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LOL dont give this situation a second thought.
Just think about a girl recieving a message from a guy 500 miles away...they would delete it without a second thought.
Just think about a girl recieving a message from a guy 500 miles away...they would delete it without a second thought.
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
?? which site was this
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.