"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Got a job,no time to go to the gym!!!

Elf

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Hi guys


I've recently got a new job, but i have to do extra work so i leave work very late at night like 22.00 / 23.00 h., so i don't have time to go to the gym. What kind of exercises can i do at home and is it ok to workout this late?

Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ricky

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Yeah or find a 24 hr gym!
 

BuddhaSMASH

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Straight up Juan. I get up and leave for the gym every morning at 5 oclock.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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xyzzy

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For a time at my last job I would go during lunch, the downtown gym was a couple of blocks away. My "lunch" was the protein shake after the workout.

The point is, you make the time for something that is important to you.
 

Elimidate

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I'm not a morning person at all and start working out after 10:30-11:00pm.

Seem to work fine! Elimidate
 

Unbridled_1

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If it's important enough, you can find time. Using wights just 2x a week for 30mins can make a difference.
 
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