"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Got a job,no time to go to the gym!!!

Elf

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Hi guys


I've recently got a new job, but i have to do extra work so i leave work very late at night like 22.00 / 23.00 h., so i don't have time to go to the gym. What kind of exercises can i do at home and is it ok to workout this late?

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ricky

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Yeah or find a 24 hr gym!
 

BuddhaSMASH

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Straight up Juan. I get up and leave for the gym every morning at 5 oclock.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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xyzzy

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For a time at my last job I would go during lunch, the downtown gym was a couple of blocks away. My "lunch" was the protein shake after the workout.

The point is, you make the time for something that is important to you.
 

Elimidate

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I'm not a morning person at all and start working out after 10:30-11:00pm.

Seem to work fine! Elimidate
 

Unbridled_1

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If it's important enough, you can find time. Using wights just 2x a week for 30mins can make a difference.
 
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