"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Got a house to myself...

Boxer

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I'll have a house to myself starting December 21st. Do I have enough time to build up a rapport with girls I meet out of school to be able to get them over my house with them knowing we will be home alone? And how do I do this with out being creepy? This is my big step up to my game.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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One technique is to have an excuse to stop by your place after
you pick her up for an outing. Forgot wallet, etc. What this does
is give her the idea that your place is familiar. You can gauge
her very initial comfort by watching how far in she will go with you (while
you are retrieving your wallet or whatever). Step up game accordingly.
 
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