"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Got a house to myself...

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I'll have a house to myself starting December 21st. Do I have enough time to build up a rapport with girls I meet out of school to be able to get them over my house with them knowing we will be home alone? And how do I do this with out being creepy? This is my big step up to my game.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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One technique is to have an excuse to stop by your place after
you pick her up for an outing. Forgot wallet, etc. What this does
is give her the idea that your place is familiar. You can gauge
her very initial comfort by watching how far in she will go with you (while
you are retrieving your wallet or whatever). Step up game accordingly.
 
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