"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Got a house to myself...

Boxer

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I'll have a house to myself starting December 21st. Do I have enough time to build up a rapport with girls I meet out of school to be able to get them over my house with them knowing we will be home alone? And how do I do this with out being creepy? This is my big step up to my game.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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One technique is to have an excuse to stop by your place after
you pick her up for an outing. Forgot wallet, etc. What this does
is give her the idea that your place is familiar. You can gauge
her very initial comfort by watching how far in she will go with you (while
you are retrieving your wallet or whatever). Step up game accordingly.
 
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