"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Got a Hottie's number at networking event - Follow up Coverage :)

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Keep doing your thing playa. This thread has been a good read and a lot of lessons can be learned. I'm in a relationship as well and love to game and get new chicks. It's my obsession.
Thanks, I actually am going to post a thread about doing this in general soon. Glad to see I'm not the conflicted about it I have to be honest but good to know that this can be common to males as I suspect.

Everyone but YOU could tell her Interest wasnt there...at all. Should never be that difficult to hang with a woman.
I did have this inclination the whole time but she did follow up with me randomly and hang out with me again so because I find her attractive my mind probably did play a game on me thinking there was a possibility. Your post is kind of funny though considering your last one accused me of being the one to play games by not making a move. You should have just told me not to bother since it was so obvious she was interested ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I told this girl I'm gay and she's been hitting me up lol She mentioned wanting to hang out.. I'm going to try and pull off something like this with hopefully better results but regardless it will be an experience just to try this experiment lol And for all of you who are going to diss me GFY and keep reading all the wisdom here lol At least I get out there and experiment with different shvit.

 
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