"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Got a great girl just need a little advice she was complaining the other night.

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok Its over and walking away but I need to know future reference like I guess I don't keep it habitual and boring and I guess what make myself less available?
 

Mr. Kalikoat

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Stop bumping your own threats with double posts like that, it's annoying and it makes you look desperate (though you already kinda did look desperate to me to be perfectly honest).


To answer your question:

Stop being a child and take charge of your own life. Do what YOU want and what feels good to YOU. Find a chick who can accept you for who you are. If she can't, ditch her and find a new one.

That is not to say that you shouldn't use game and just sit on your arse waiting for the perfect princess to show up. That ain't gonna happen. You need to improve yourself and improve your game. But what I'm saying is, never do stuff against your will just to please a chick, no chick is worth that.


PS: And for the love of god learn to use punctuation. I really can't understand half of the stuff you're tying because it's just endless rambling without punctuation. Sorry to sound harsh, but it had to be said.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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