"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Got a great girl just need a little advice she was complaining the other night.

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ok Its over and walking away but I need to know future reference like I guess I don't keep it habitual and boring and I guess what make myself less available?
 

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Stop bumping your own threats with double posts like that, it's annoying and it makes you look desperate (though you already kinda did look desperate to me to be perfectly honest).


To answer your question:

Stop being a child and take charge of your own life. Do what YOU want and what feels good to YOU. Find a chick who can accept you for who you are. If she can't, ditch her and find a new one.

That is not to say that you shouldn't use game and just sit on your arse waiting for the perfect princess to show up. That ain't gonna happen. You need to improve yourself and improve your game. But what I'm saying is, never do stuff against your will just to please a chick, no chick is worth that.


PS: And for the love of god learn to use punctuation. I really can't understand half of the stuff you're tying because it's just endless rambling without punctuation. Sorry to sound harsh, but it had to be said.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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