Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Got a great girl just need a little advice she was complaining the other night.

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok Its over and walking away but I need to know future reference like I guess I don't keep it habitual and boring and I guess what make myself less available?
 
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Stop bumping your own threats with double posts like that, it's annoying and it makes you look desperate (though you already kinda did look desperate to me to be perfectly honest).


To answer your question:

Stop being a child and take charge of your own life. Do what YOU want and what feels good to YOU. Find a chick who can accept you for who you are. If she can't, ditch her and find a new one.

That is not to say that you shouldn't use game and just sit on your arse waiting for the perfect princess to show up. That ain't gonna happen. You need to improve yourself and improve your game. But what I'm saying is, never do stuff against your will just to please a chick, no chick is worth that.


PS: And for the love of god learn to use punctuation. I really can't understand half of the stuff you're tying because it's just endless rambling without punctuation. Sorry to sound harsh, but it had to be said.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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