"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i gotta head 2 the library tomorow mornin and im sure im gonna see this girl there

im gonna see her in the library so i was hoping i could get some tips on how to get a conversation going with her. im gonna go up 2 her and say 'hi' my names *******, then she gonna reply

were do i go on from there

and please don't say 'look in the dj bible' cos i ain't got much time left
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Think to yourself:

What do you want to know about her?
What do you want her to know about you?

And use those to guide your conversation tomorrow. Remember the basic rule: dont talk about yourself unless she asks. Focus the conversation about her. Its just perfect, they love to talk about themselves, and we get to know the things we want to know about them.
 
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If you have humor this can pay off big for you...


I'm going to help you young men out here and give you something gold! Humor always works best.

Sit across from the girl and pass her written notes. In your note state, "I'm writing you this note not because I am obeying the library's rule of silence, but rather because I am a mute and can't talk. I can also read lips if you just want to mouth your response back to me.

Ask her some entertaining questions...

Then write something like, "it kind of sucks being a mute because I can't impress girls with my verbal wit, so I must do it in writing and it kind of sucks when there is no paper around. But I have enough paper here to carry a 10 hour conversation with you. SMILE!

I am every women's dream, "a man that can't speak allows more time for the women to talk!" then write, "I'm an excellent conversationalist on all the internet chat rooms and instant messaging...how about giving me your e-mail address so that we can communicate further."

Write crazy stuff like that, then when the bell rings tell her you miraculously got your voice back and would now prefer her phone number!


"When the bell rings" comment was referring to 'high school' library. You don't have to wait til then, just get your voice back when you are finished with your experiment.
 

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puertotican lover

thanks for the advice but if i do that she'll think im a bit of a dumb ****

its kinda makes u look bad
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why - have you no sense of humor?
 
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