"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i gotta head 2 the library tomorow mornin and im sure im gonna see this girl there

im gonna see her in the library so i was hoping i could get some tips on how to get a conversation going with her. im gonna go up 2 her and say 'hi' my names *******, then she gonna reply

were do i go on from there

and please don't say 'look in the dj bible' cos i ain't got much time left
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Think to yourself:

What do you want to know about her?
What do you want her to know about you?

And use those to guide your conversation tomorrow. Remember the basic rule: dont talk about yourself unless she asks. Focus the conversation about her. Its just perfect, they love to talk about themselves, and we get to know the things we want to know about them.
 
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If you have humor this can pay off big for you...


I'm going to help you young men out here and give you something gold! Humor always works best.

Sit across from the girl and pass her written notes. In your note state, "I'm writing you this note not because I am obeying the library's rule of silence, but rather because I am a mute and can't talk. I can also read lips if you just want to mouth your response back to me.

Ask her some entertaining questions...

Then write something like, "it kind of sucks being a mute because I can't impress girls with my verbal wit, so I must do it in writing and it kind of sucks when there is no paper around. But I have enough paper here to carry a 10 hour conversation with you. SMILE!

I am every women's dream, "a man that can't speak allows more time for the women to talk!" then write, "I'm an excellent conversationalist on all the internet chat rooms and instant messaging...how about giving me your e-mail address so that we can communicate further."

Write crazy stuff like that, then when the bell rings tell her you miraculously got your voice back and would now prefer her phone number!


"When the bell rings" comment was referring to 'high school' library. You don't have to wait til then, just get your voice back when you are finished with your experiment.
 

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puertotican lover

thanks for the advice but if i do that she'll think im a bit of a dumb ****

its kinda makes u look bad
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why - have you no sense of humor?
 
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