"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Got a date tonight

speakeasy

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This is a girl I'd met on myspace a couple years ago. She never seemed interested up until recently. She now wants to go out for a drink tonight. My roommate is out of town so it would be nice to get her back to the bachelor pad for some action. We'll see. I've had a very long slump so I'm hoping this is a slump breaker!

Any good tips on getting the girl from the bar to your apartment without setting off the resistance alarm?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJDamage

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speakeasy said:
Any good tips on getting the girl from the bar to your apartment without setting off the resistance alarm?
Why you got to go to a bar and then go back to your apartment? go buy some drinks and have the drinks in your place and you kill two birds with one stone.
 

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If you're good enough....there won't BE any resistance.


Otherwise, suggest a DVD or something....
 

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Have a few snacks at home, at lot of girls get hungry so theres a good excuse.
Or just drive her wild on the dancefloor and make her beg for it.
 

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It sucked. We didn't even go to a bar, she didn't want to drink, just wanted coffee, so we went to a coffee shop. Had a completely boring time. She seemed not comfortable at all and sort of tense. I felt like I was leading the conversation. There was virtually no kino as we were sitting across the table from each other and there were no sort of couches or anything where you could sit side by side. No chemistry whatsoever. Felt like it was a goddamned interview. I hate those kind of dates. This wasn't the first time I've met her, but this is the first time I've spent any time with her alone. F*ck it, got to find me some new prospects. Wack.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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killbill

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well, just try to make her happy at the bar and then when she is in a good mood ask if she wants to go chill at your place. do that, anyways I hope you get laid. :up:
 
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