"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This is a girl I'd met on myspace a couple years ago. She never seemed interested up until recently. She now wants to go out for a drink tonight. My roommate is out of town so it would be nice to get her back to the bachelor pad for some action. We'll see. I've had a very long slump so I'm hoping this is a slump breaker!

Any good tips on getting the girl from the bar to your apartment without setting off the resistance alarm?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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speakeasy said:
Any good tips on getting the girl from the bar to your apartment without setting off the resistance alarm?
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Why you got to go to a bar and then go back to your apartment? go buy some drinks and have the drinks in your place and you kill two birds with one stone.
 
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If you're good enough....there won't BE any resistance.


Otherwise, suggest a DVD or something....
 
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Have a few snacks at home, at lot of girls get hungry so theres a good excuse.
Or just drive her wild on the dancefloor and make her beg for it.
 
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It sucked. We didn't even go to a bar, she didn't want to drink, just wanted coffee, so we went to a coffee shop. Had a completely boring time. She seemed not comfortable at all and sort of tense. I felt like I was leading the conversation. There was virtually no kino as we were sitting across the table from each other and there were no sort of couches or anything where you could sit side by side. No chemistry whatsoever. Felt like it was a goddamned interview. I hate those kind of dates. This wasn't the first time I've met her, but this is the first time I've spent any time with her alone. F*ck it, got to find me some new prospects. Wack.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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well, just try to make her happy at the bar and then when she is in a good mood ask if she wants to go chill at your place. do that, anyways I hope you get laid. :up:
 
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