"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Got a date tonight

speakeasy

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This is a girl I'd met on myspace a couple years ago. She never seemed interested up until recently. She now wants to go out for a drink tonight. My roommate is out of town so it would be nice to get her back to the bachelor pad for some action. We'll see. I've had a very long slump so I'm hoping this is a slump breaker!

Any good tips on getting the girl from the bar to your apartment without setting off the resistance alarm?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJDamage

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speakeasy said:
Any good tips on getting the girl from the bar to your apartment without setting off the resistance alarm?
Why you got to go to a bar and then go back to your apartment? go buy some drinks and have the drinks in your place and you kill two birds with one stone.
 

WesCottII

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If you're good enough....there won't BE any resistance.


Otherwise, suggest a DVD or something....
 

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Have a few snacks at home, at lot of girls get hungry so theres a good excuse.
Or just drive her wild on the dancefloor and make her beg for it.
 

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It sucked. We didn't even go to a bar, she didn't want to drink, just wanted coffee, so we went to a coffee shop. Had a completely boring time. She seemed not comfortable at all and sort of tense. I felt like I was leading the conversation. There was virtually no kino as we were sitting across the table from each other and there were no sort of couches or anything where you could sit side by side. No chemistry whatsoever. Felt like it was a goddamned interview. I hate those kind of dates. This wasn't the first time I've met her, but this is the first time I've spent any time with her alone. F*ck it, got to find me some new prospects. Wack.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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killbill

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well, just try to make her happy at the bar and then when she is in a good mood ask if she wants to go chill at your place. do that, anyways I hope you get laid. :up:
 
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