You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hmm is stretching actually a good idea BEFORE going jogging? I believe that is bad for your muscles.Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Stretching is very imporant. Make sure you stretch your WHOLE body before you go jogging.![]()
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Double knows his stuff. I'm going to only stretch before hand. I've been doing that except for sports, but working out, it's always afterwards.Originally posted by Double
because your trainers haven't read new studies. strechting only after exercise(aerob or anaerob doesnt matter). i have read it on different bodybuilding forums and my doctor said the same.
Bro what do you think a warm-up is for? and after the warm-up you can stretch, then begin the actual workoutOriginally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Stretching before and after is good.
Stretching BEFORE is more important because you may injure yourself if you do an intense workout without stretching before hand. This should be common sense.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I believe that it is nessecery to prevent cramps and possible injuries.Originally posted by rapsta
Hmm is stretching actually a good idea BEFORE going jogging? I believe that is bad for your muscles.
Good stuff. Thanks for posting and being a soldier!Originally posted by HalfAddict
STRECH AFTER YOU EXERSICE
also DRINK WATER! tons of it .. do not exceed twelve quarts in a day or will will get nausiated and have over hydration.
wake up EARLy like 4:00-7:00 am somewhere in that timeframe
doing this will speed your metabolism
and helps to burn body fat even when you aren't exercising.
exercise before you eat
to start to basic exercises ie jumping jacks a set of 20 pushups and a set of 20 situps
start jogging in place
jog for one miniute then jog across a field or your yard whatever lifting your knees as close to your chest as they will go do this twice
then do the latteral basically get down like you're in a football game waiting for the play to begin legs spread hands infront of you like you're going to block a tackle.
now skip to the side basically side "hopping" across your yard. repeat
then sprint accross your yard field whatever as fast as you can twice now choose to run a mile or do an extreme amount of push ups and situps like until you can't anymore then take a breather and start back up
you'll notice results within weeks
I repeat after your exercise stretch then drink at least one quart of water
and make sure you consume roughly 6-8 quarts a day
Eat right if you don't feel you are go to gnc and pick up some "mega man" vitamins these will help but if you eat right right with the vitamins your results will be wayyy better.
eating right consists of eating breakfast in the morning lunch at noon and dinner at five nothing after six also stick with reletivly healthy foods ... mcdonalds and pizza aren't healthy .. im sure you're smart enough to know whats good and bad for you.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Originally posted by diablo
Try searching for things like "pack" (since usually someone will write 6-pack somewhere in a thread dealing with abs...)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66611&highlight=pack
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...d=124352&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending