I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Hmm is stretching actually a good idea BEFORE going jogging? I believe that is bad for your muscles.Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Stretching is very imporant. Make sure you stretch your WHOLE body before you go jogging.![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Double knows his stuff. I'm going to only stretch before hand. I've been doing that except for sports, but working out, it's always afterwards.Originally posted by Double
because your trainers haven't read new studies. strechting only after exercise(aerob or anaerob doesnt matter). i have read it on different bodybuilding forums and my doctor said the same.
Bro what do you think a warm-up is for? and after the warm-up you can stretch, then begin the actual workoutOriginally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Stretching before and after is good.
Stretching BEFORE is more important because you may injure yourself if you do an intense workout without stretching before hand. This should be common sense.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I believe that it is nessecery to prevent cramps and possible injuries.Originally posted by rapsta
Hmm is stretching actually a good idea BEFORE going jogging? I believe that is bad for your muscles.
Good stuff. Thanks for posting and being a soldier!Originally posted by HalfAddict
STRECH AFTER YOU EXERSICE
also DRINK WATER! tons of it .. do not exceed twelve quarts in a day or will will get nausiated and have over hydration.
wake up EARLy like 4:00-7:00 am somewhere in that timeframe
doing this will speed your metabolism
and helps to burn body fat even when you aren't exercising.
exercise before you eat
to start to basic exercises ie jumping jacks a set of 20 pushups and a set of 20 situps
start jogging in place
jog for one miniute then jog across a field or your yard whatever lifting your knees as close to your chest as they will go do this twice
then do the latteral basically get down like you're in a football game waiting for the play to begin legs spread hands infront of you like you're going to block a tackle.
now skip to the side basically side "hopping" across your yard. repeat
then sprint accross your yard field whatever as fast as you can twice now choose to run a mile or do an extreme amount of push ups and situps like until you can't anymore then take a breather and start back up
you'll notice results within weeks
I repeat after your exercise stretch then drink at least one quart of water
and make sure you consume roughly 6-8 quarts a day
Eat right if you don't feel you are go to gnc and pick up some "mega man" vitamins these will help but if you eat right right with the vitamins your results will be wayyy better.
eating right consists of eating breakfast in the morning lunch at noon and dinner at five nothing after six also stick with reletivly healthy foods ... mcdonalds and pizza aren't healthy .. im sure you're smart enough to know whats good and bad for you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Originally posted by diablo
Try searching for things like "pack" (since usually someone will write 6-pack somewhere in a thread dealing with abs...)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66611&highlight=pack
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...d=124352&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending