"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good Stories to tell in HS

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I heard that story telling is a great way for communicating with girls. What are some topics of stories I can tell that are approapiate for high school
girls...and will enjoy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I haven't heard that, but rather, being friendly, and asking questions that are more than yes or no questions work much better. It is better to not talk too much, and telling stories can have you doing all the talking, versus being a good listener. no need to do the talking, as girls like talking, especially about themselves.
 

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wavejams007 said:
I haven't heard that, but rather, being friendly, and asking questions that are more than yes or no questions work much better. It is better to not talk too much, and telling stories can have you doing all the talking, versus being a good listener. no need to do the talking, as girls like talking, especially about themselves.
story telling is good from my experiences, but i let the girls tell me about themselves too. Like stated above, be a good listener...as well as a good speaker.

just tell them about something funny or entertaining that happened. (news, hockey, something that happened on the weekend w/e)
 

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Yah thanx for the help but I know girls like to talk about themselves...who the hell doesnt LOL. But i jus need a little more advice on this topic, so if anyone who views this can add their pointers that would be great.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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