"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good Stories to tell in HS

Jamal

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I heard that story telling is a great way for communicating with girls. What are some topics of stories I can tell that are approapiate for high school
girls...and will enjoy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I haven't heard that, but rather, being friendly, and asking questions that are more than yes or no questions work much better. It is better to not talk too much, and telling stories can have you doing all the talking, versus being a good listener. no need to do the talking, as girls like talking, especially about themselves.
 

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wavejams007 said:
I haven't heard that, but rather, being friendly, and asking questions that are more than yes or no questions work much better. It is better to not talk too much, and telling stories can have you doing all the talking, versus being a good listener. no need to do the talking, as girls like talking, especially about themselves.
story telling is good from my experiences, but i let the girls tell me about themselves too. Like stated above, be a good listener...as well as a good speaker.

just tell them about something funny or entertaining that happened. (news, hockey, something that happened on the weekend w/e)
 

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Yah thanx for the help but I know girls like to talk about themselves...who the hell doesnt LOL. But i jus need a little more advice on this topic, so if anyone who views this can add their pointers that would be great.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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