"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good Stories to tell in HS

Jamal

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I heard that story telling is a great way for communicating with girls. What are some topics of stories I can tell that are approapiate for high school
girls...and will enjoy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I haven't heard that, but rather, being friendly, and asking questions that are more than yes or no questions work much better. It is better to not talk too much, and telling stories can have you doing all the talking, versus being a good listener. no need to do the talking, as girls like talking, especially about themselves.
 

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wavejams007 said:
I haven't heard that, but rather, being friendly, and asking questions that are more than yes or no questions work much better. It is better to not talk too much, and telling stories can have you doing all the talking, versus being a good listener. no need to do the talking, as girls like talking, especially about themselves.
story telling is good from my experiences, but i let the girls tell me about themselves too. Like stated above, be a good listener...as well as a good speaker.

just tell them about something funny or entertaining that happened. (news, hockey, something that happened on the weekend w/e)
 

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Yah thanx for the help but I know girls like to talk about themselves...who the hell doesnt LOL. But i jus need a little more advice on this topic, so if anyone who views this can add their pointers that would be great.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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