"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My shoe collection consists of all sneakers , such as Converse, Nike and 1 black Shoe. It's a Brockport.

Can anyone recommend me some good shoes to wear for casual fun and one for a job interview? Both should be black right? More specifially what brand name and the style its called? ty.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I try to avoid black dress shoes unless I'm going somewhere at night or going to a funeral... nice brown/oxblood/tan/burgundy/etc. shoes have so much more character, especially at a lower price point, and will actually go better with almost any color suit other than black.

However, for an accounting job interview (conservative environment), to go with your new charcoal suit that I recommended in your other thread, I'd get something black by Allen-Edmonds. You can pick them up for ~$300 at www.zappos.com, or if you're lucky a lot cheaper at Nordstrom Rack (~$150) or on eBay (as low as $20!). The nice thing about AE is you can send them back to the manufacturer to be refurbished, so the shoes last a long, long time. They're nice to begin with, too.

Check these out:
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/22513663/c/3.html
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/15606652/c/3.html

Bostonians are not nearly as nice (one-third the price for maybe one-fifth the shoe) but work in a pinch, particularly if you're young and just getting started. I have a captoe pair I picked up in oxblood at the Rack for $35 that look pretty good, surprisingly.

Something like these:
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/7512858/c/255.html
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/839/c/3.html

Generally, if you're aiming to go cheaper on a pair of dress shoes it's better to not go any more ornate than a captoe. Broguing is probably inappropriate for a job interview anyway.

More on "dress-casual" shoes later! Hope this helps.
 

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Sneakers are cool brother. I wear black sketchers, and I put shoes shine on them. That is the only pair of new shoes I got right now. I also feature a prison break outfit. Jeans, solid color or striped dress shirt, with rolled up sleaves, all the way to the middle of my upper arms, then I dont button last two or 3 buttons, dont tuck it in, and wear a black A-shirt underneath. Nice, eh? The other day I drove in $100,000 black bentley, I think I looked bad a55. I also dont wear any colgne and hairjail my hair back.


As far as shoes go, Id pick up anything I like at DSW shoes, as long as I can walk in them on carpet and tile without slipping. Sometimes you get a pair of really expensive shoes, and its like ice skating when you walk in for an interview. That really sux, try to avoid that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lol sparky, Thanks for link bro those are some awesome looking shoes!
 

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These look nice. Wondering why you pick Ferragamo at that price point though, sparky...
 
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