"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Good shoes?

warrior1

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 14, 2004
Messages
404
Reaction score
0
My shoe collection consists of all sneakers , such as Converse, Nike and 1 black Shoe. It's a Brockport.

Can anyone recommend me some good shoes to wear for casual fun and one for a job interview? Both should be black right? More specifially what brand name and the style its called? ty.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

seanchai

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2005
Messages
766
Reaction score
5
Age
40
Location
Seattle
I try to avoid black dress shoes unless I'm going somewhere at night or going to a funeral... nice brown/oxblood/tan/burgundy/etc. shoes have so much more character, especially at a lower price point, and will actually go better with almost any color suit other than black.

However, for an accounting job interview (conservative environment), to go with your new charcoal suit that I recommended in your other thread, I'd get something black by Allen-Edmonds. You can pick them up for ~$300 at www.zappos.com, or if you're lucky a lot cheaper at Nordstrom Rack (~$150) or on eBay (as low as $20!). The nice thing about AE is you can send them back to the manufacturer to be refurbished, so the shoes last a long, long time. They're nice to begin with, too.

Check these out:
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/22513663/c/3.html
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/15606652/c/3.html

Bostonians are not nearly as nice (one-third the price for maybe one-fifth the shoe) but work in a pinch, particularly if you're young and just getting started. I have a captoe pair I picked up in oxblood at the Rack for $35 that look pretty good, surprisingly.

Something like these:
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/7512858/c/255.html
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/839/c/3.html

Generally, if you're aiming to go cheaper on a pair of dress shoes it's better to not go any more ornate than a captoe. Broguing is probably inappropriate for a job interview anyway.

More on "dress-casual" shoes later! Hope this helps.
 

djSlvt

Banned
Joined
Mar 19, 2007
Messages
783
Reaction score
2
Location
Falkland Islands, Florida
Sneakers are cool brother. I wear black sketchers, and I put shoes shine on them. That is the only pair of new shoes I got right now. I also feature a prison break outfit. Jeans, solid color or striped dress shirt, with rolled up sleaves, all the way to the middle of my upper arms, then I dont button last two or 3 buttons, dont tuck it in, and wear a black A-shirt underneath. Nice, eh? The other day I drove in $100,000 black bentley, I think I looked bad a55. I also dont wear any colgne and hairjail my hair back.


As far as shoes go, Id pick up anything I like at DSW shoes, as long as I can walk in them on carpet and tile without slipping. Sometimes you get a pair of really expensive shoes, and its like ice skating when you walk in for an interview. That really sux, try to avoid that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

sparky0000

Banned
Joined
Apr 27, 2006
Messages
669
Reaction score
4

SamoJednom

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2007
Messages
123
Reaction score
0
lol sparky, Thanks for link bro those are some awesome looking shoes!
 

seanchai

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2005
Messages
766
Reaction score
5
Age
40
Location
Seattle
These look nice. Wondering why you pick Ferragamo at that price point though, sparky...
 
Top