"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Good sex is hard to walk away from....

NewMan

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And I'm talking about really good sex, with the kind of woman who's always open and available....

Even though you know it's the right thing to do, walking away can be tough.

I'm doing it now, and even though it's the right thing, when I get that phone call, I can feel my little man tugging away at me.

Whooooa damn.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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speed dawg

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Just go beat off.

Seriously.
 

Victory Unlimited

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Yo NEWMAN,

"ANYTHING that you can't say NO to, is your MASTER. And YOU are it's SLAVE".


Yes, read and re-read this quote of mine that Sergeant SPEED DAWG has listed in his signature, meditate on it, then think about either the negative effects that NOT mastering your body may have on you in the long run.

Many fortunes, many freedoms, many futures have been lost by men who allow themselves to be driven by their sexual desires as much as some women allow themselves to be driven by their emotional whims.

Live FREE. Spend your time wisely, still enjoying the emotions and the sex of the moment, but ONLY as long as you keep a logical "eye" looking toward the future.

No one knows what the future holds, but there are many men who would trade almost anything if they could "take back" one or two "ill-advised" sexual maneuvers--------because of the ADVERSE consequences that they are experiencing NOW.

You've been on here long enough to have read the stories of the BPD Chicks, the stalkers, the supposed "friends with benefits" situations that have ended very badly, the emotional devastation that has resulted from guys pompously "thinking" they were too macho to get hooked on sex with the WRONG kinds of women, the divorces that resulted from men hooking up with chicks because the ONLY thing they had going for them was their "sexiness", etc. etc., etc.

Sure, continue to explore. Continue to take risks----but let them be CALCULATED ones. The God-given capacity for reason, logic, and foresight that you have as a man arms you with a "weapon" of self-protection that many foolishly rarely use.

Don't become a statistic.

Don't join in their number.

Yes it's true-----even SEX is something that a man can use and/or experience for his own greater, and FUTURE benefit. So choose to continue to use it wisely.

Is this NOT part of what it means for a man to be a MATURE man?

YEARS from now, let the stories that you tell your friends, your family, your kids, etc. be stories that have NOTHING to do with the HELL that you have had to suffer because of how you "one day" chose to thoughtlessly and unfortunately let your DIKK be your guide-------as opposed to your holistically-minded "good sense".

Or to put it another way-----realize that there is benefit in KNOWING that not every chick DESERVES your dikk, soldier. And that's the TRUTH.

Much Respect, my man. And...


...Soldier on.
 

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Its definitely a natural narcotic. AFCism can be found wherever there is an addiction.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Great post Victory - and of course you are very very right!!!!

The crazy ones are the best.

Time for a cold shower and to rub one out ;)

but seriously, I'm not planning on caving, just this morning it hit me and the urge was there.
 

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Good sex is hard to walk away from
It makes me limp.

God almighty, sometimes I'm so f@ckin' extraordinarily witty.
 
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